FORGED FROM FIRE
FROM ADVERSITY TO AUTHENTICITY
STOP BEING A VICTIM. WALK THROUGH THE FIRE.
But you know who CAN do something about it?
YOU.
You can sit there, drowning in bitterness, obsessing over the past, or you can get the hell up and start fighting for yourself. Because that’s what Forged From Fire is about—turning you from broken and lost into focused, unshakable, and untouchable.
You’ve been burned, beaten down, discarded like you don’t matter. Good. Now we use that fire to rebuild you into someone no one will ever fuck with again.
This is your turning point. You either step up or stay stuck. Make your choice.
WHO I AM & WHY I DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT EXCUSES
I’m Justin T Malama and I don’t do soft, feel-good coaching. I don’t care about “manifesting” your best life or finding your inner peace. I care about RESULTS.
I’ve been there. I’ve been lied to, manipulated, gaslit, treated like the bad guy for crap I didn’t do. I’ve been dragged through custody battles, betrayed, and pushed to the edge. I know exactly what it feels like to want to give up.
But I refused to stay down.
Now, I run Forged From Fire, Formally 3 Nails 1 Tree Community Corporation (3N1T) guiding individuals through the worst moments of their lives and showing them how to come out the other side ruthless, disciplined, and in control.
I’m not here to be your friend. I’m here to make sure you NEVER get taken advantage of again.
No fluff. No filters. Just the raw truth—and the tools to come back stronger than ever.

RECLAIMING YOUR POWER
No more begging. No more chasing. No more explaining. You dictate the terms of your life, and if someone doesn’t like it? They can leave.
WHAT YOU WILL FIX (BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE WILL DO IT FOR YOU)
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE RECOVERY
CONFIDENCE & IDENTITY REBUILDING
DIVORCE & CUSTODY BATTLES
GRIEF & LOSS
Lost a loved one? Lost everything you worked for? Separated from your children? Life doesn’t give a damn about your pain. You don’t “move on.” You build forward—stronger, sharper, more unstoppable than before. There is no “losing” only learning!


ARE YOU READY TO STOP BEING A PUNCHING BAG?
✔ Follow the Master Class I’ll tell you exactly what’s holding you back and how to fix it. No fluff. No “healing journeys.” Just HARD WORK.
✔ Join the Brotherhood – Forged From Fire isn’t just a network—it’s where rise from the ashes.
✔ Follow for No-BS Advice – Daily doses of raw truth, battle-tested strategy, and NO excuses.
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It Starts with Fire
Then a whisper.
Then the lie: “I love you.”
That’s the cycle. That’s the trap. That’s trauma bonding.
You’re not staying because you’re weak—you’re staying because you’ve been trained to survive on scraps. You’re starving for peace, so when she gives you 10 seconds of calm after 10 days of hell, your brain calls it love.
Forged From Fire

But it’s not love.
It’s survival.
It’s addiction.
It’s emotional heroin—and the withdrawal is brutal.