FORGED FROM FIRE

FROM ADVERSITY TO AUTHENTICITY

STOP BEING A VICTIM. WALK THROUGH THE FIRE.

Read this carefully:No one is coming to save you. No one is going to hand you your dignity back. No one is going to undo the betrayal, the gaslighting, the humiliation, the nights spent wondering how the hell your life turned into this.

But you know who CAN do something about it?
YOU.

You can sit there, drowning in bitterness, obsessing over the past, or you can get the hell up and start fighting for yourself. Because that’s what Forged From Fire is about—turning you from broken and lost into focused, unshakable, and untouchable.

You’ve been burned, beaten down, discarded like you don’t matter. Good. Now we use that fire to rebuild you into someone no one will ever fuck with again.

This is your turning point. You either step up or stay stuck. Make your choice.

WHO I AM & WHY I DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT EXCUSES

I’m Justin T Malama and I don’t do soft, feel-good coaching. I don’t care about “manifesting” your best life or finding your inner peace. I care about RESULTS.
I’ve been there. I’ve been lied to, manipulated, gaslit, treated like the bad guy for crap I didn’t do. I’ve been dragged through custody battles, betrayed, and pushed to the edge. I know exactly what it feels like to want to give up.
But I refused to stay down.
Now, I run Forged From Fire, Formally 3 Nails 1 Tree Community Corporation (3N1T) guiding individuals through the worst moments of their lives and showing them how to come out the other side ruthless, disciplined, and in control.
I’m not here to be your friend. I’m here to make sure you NEVER get taken advantage of again.
No fluff. No filters. Just the raw truth—and the tools to come back stronger than ever.
FORGED: From Silence to Strength is a no-BS survival manual for men recovering from emotional abuse, narcissistic relationships, and custody warzones. Written by certified life coach and survivor Justin Malama, Forged isn’t about healing gently—it’s about reclaiming your mind, rebuilding your kingdom, and rising from the fire with purpose.

RECLAIMING YOUR POWER

No more begging. No more chasing. No more explaining. You dictate the terms of your life, and if someone doesn’t like it? They can leave.

WHAT YOU WILL FIX (BECAUSE NO ONE ELSE WILL DO IT FOR YOU)
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE RECOVERY
You fell for the manipulation. They rewired your brain to doubt yourself, to feel crazy, to think you’re the problem. You’re not. Now, it’s time to unlearn the bullshit and become someone no manipulator can ever sink their claws into again.
CONFIDENCE & IDENTITY REBUILDING
The version of you that let this happen? Dead. We’re building the new you—the one who walks into a room and owns it, the one who never apologizes for your strength, the one who sets the terms and never, ever bends for people who don’t deserve it.
DIVORCE & CUSTODY BATTLES
Think the courts care about you? Think the system is fair? It’s not. But I’ll make sure you don’t get destroyed by it. You fight smart, you fight hard, and you refuse to let anyone take what’s yours
GRIEF & LOSS

Lost a loved one? Lost everything you worked for? Separated from your children? Life doesn’t give a damn about your pain. You don’t “move on.” You build forward—stronger, sharper, more unstoppable than before. There is no “losing” only learning!

ARE YOU READY TO STOP BEING A PUNCHING BAG?

Follow the Master Class I’ll tell you exactly what’s holding you back and how to fix it. No fluff. No “healing journeys.” Just HARD WORK.


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